"Try" by P!nk is one of my favorite songs by her, and regarding Rachelle, I keep coming back to the line:
"Just because it burns doesn't mean you're going to die, you gotta get up and try..."
It's true. The pain of losing Rachelle burns and hurts and is scarring, but it doesn't mean I'm going to die.
It means it's another opportunity to get up and try living another day.